The summer holidays are over and its time to go back to school. A million children sigh as the inevitable becomes tomorrow. No more staying up late and getting up late. No more relaxed days under the warm sun and certainly no more hose pipes, shorts and tee-shirts.
The young children are getting stressed over facing the unknown starting school for the first time, the older kids are wary of returning to the guarded friendships and bullying of the playground, while teenagers dread the regimented world where they have to buckle down to work and get the A grades.
Then there is the parent’s to think about. No more late nights with early starts and no more lazy breakfasts and easy routines. There are uniforms to buy, wash and iron. New stationary, new bags, new shoes and new sports kit to get.
The school run is a nightmare for every parent across the nation. Deciding who takes the kids is enough to initiate divorce proceedings. The change of routine can be as stressful to the parents as for the children. More often then not the stress of the starting school brings out the anger in all the family, and soon the adults are acting like children and the whole house is in uproar.
‘It’s entirely normal to feel a degree of stress as the start of school approaches.’ experts would say.
What can you do about it?
There are always tools and methods to help you through any kind of stressful situation. Mike Fisher from the British Association of Anger Management (BAAM) is an expert in stress and anger and knows better than anyone how to deal with your stress in these times of need. Rule 1 of his Eight Golden Rules of Anger Management is to ‘Back off, stop, think, take a look at the big picture.
“Will it matter in five minutes’ he’d ask, and then Will it matter in five years?”
Perhaps it won’t and we are stressing over nothing?
Relax, everything is under control and the start of the new school year is guaranteed to be a success because you are prepared for the new challenge ahead.
Here are three tips to help you:
Going back to school doesn’t have to be the stressful nightmare you imagine it to be.
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